Frequently Asked Questions
Session Offerings & Structure
Session Durations & Options
The shortest erotic massage offered is one hour, which provides a brief introduction to the experience.
For those seeking deeper exploration, longer sessions like “The Serpent and the Sanctuary” (90 minutes) or “The Alchemical Touch” (3 hours) are recommended.
Can I have a shorter massage, like for half an hour?
I completely understand the desire to have a shorter massage. However, my shortest erotic massage is one hour. An hour is just enough to give you a taste, though in my opinion, it’s not quite enough time to truly sink into the full experience of Tantra.
Session Flow
Begins with a clothed conversation to set intentions and address questions.
Explains differences between erotic and Tantra massage.
Offers grounding practices before transitioning to the massage.
Clients may undress in private or in front of the practitioner, based on comfort.
Massage proceeds with care, presence, and optional lingam release, guided by the body’s natural flow.
Can you give me a rundown of your massages?
We begin fully clothed, sitting together on my cosy couch. I’ll invite you to share your intention for the session and ask any questions that might be on your heart. I’ll explain the difference between erotic massage and Tantra massage, offer a couple of grounding practices, and help you tune into what your soul is most desiring in that moment.
From there, I take payment, and you’re welcome to undress either in private or in front of me, whatever helps you feel most safe and honoured. You can be fully nude or keep your underwear on. When you’re ready, you lie down on your chest on the massage mattress or table, either under a sheet or uncovered if that feels more comfortable.
Then, everything unfolds slowly, with presence and care. Nothing is rushed. Vulnerability is welcomed, but never forced. You are held, just as you are.
Lingam release is optional, guided by your body’s natural flow.
Looking forward to welcoming you soon.
Do your sessions include genital touch?
Only if you choose. Tantra Counselling never includes genital touch. Some types of Mystic Tantra Massage and Erotic Massage may include optional genital touch with your consent. All touch is guided by consent, presence, and deep reverence.
Does your Mystic Tantra Massage Journey include extras, like kissing?
The Mystic Tantra Massage Journey does not include extras, as they are rooted in precise ancestral teachings and sacred spiritual lineages. These sessions honour a specific container of transmission that is devoted to deep inner transformation, energetic alignment, and the transmission of mystic codes. This requires a clear boundary around sensual expression so the energy can be held with reverence and integrity.
If you’re longing for a more fluid, co-created, and sensual experience, I invite you to explore The Sacred Seduction, The Serpent and the Sanctuary or The Alchemical Touch. These offerings are intentionally designed to welcome eroticism, intimacy, and delicious presence.
Payment & Booking
Payments are accepted via cash, PayID, or Beem.
Clients are invited to bring a portion of the payment in cash as a symbolic offering to the tantric altar.
Bookings can be made through the “Book Here” page or by direct contact.
What types of payment do you accept?
Payment is kindly requested before we begin.
You’re welcome to pay via cash, PayID (to my same phone number 0410 885 675), or Beem. Whatever feels easiest for you.
Additionally, I invite you to bring at least a small portion of your payment in cash form, as a symbolic offering to the deities and unseen forces supporting our session. I will invite you to place your offering on the altar while connecting with your intention at the start of our session. This gesture is entirely optional, and can be a beautiful way to honour the sacredness of our time together.
Thank you for honouring this energetic exchange with care and presence.
Deposit & Cancellation Policy
A deposit equivalent to the base offering is required to secure a booking.
Cancellations with at least 48 hours’ notice allow the deposit to be transferred to a future session within 30 days.
Cancellations within 24 hours or no-shows are charged in full.
What is your deposit and cancellation policy?
To secure your booking, I require a deposit. This confirms your time and energetically seals our commitment. The deposit amount will be the equivalent of my base offering (The Sacred Seduction) plus any extra time allocated, and is non-refundable.
I honour your time and mine as sacred, and I appreciate clear, respectful communication. If you need to cancel or reschedule your session, please provide at least 48 hours’ notice. This allows space for someone else to receive and honours the energetic container we’ve both committed to. With that notice, your deposit can be transferred to a future session within the next 30 days.
Cancellations made with less than 48 hours’ notice will incur a 50% cancellation fee.
No-shows or cancellations within 24 hours of the session will be charged in full.
If unforeseen circumstances arise, I encourage open communication. I understand that life happens. My intention is always to meet you with compassion while upholding clear boundaries that keep our exchange honouring and mutual.
Therapeutic & Emotional Support
Trauma-Informed Approach
Sessions are conducted at the pace of the client’s nervous system, honoring emotional safety and boundaries.
Emotional Expression
Clients are encouraged to express emotions freely; feeling is considered a pathway to healing.
Suitability for Trauma or Medical Conditions
Clients with trauma histories or medical conditions are advised to fill out an intake form honestly to assess suitability.
Can I work with you if I have a history of trauma or a medical condition?
It depends. Some conditions may be outside my scope of practice unless you're also working with a health professional. Please fill out my intake form with honesty and we can explore if this work is a fit.
Tantra Counselling
Fully clothed sessions involving breath, movement, conscious dialogue, and energy practices to reconnect with the body and authentic erotic energy.
What is Tantra?
Tantra is an ancient spiritual path that honours the totality of human experience as sacred. It invites us to awaken Prana, our vital life force, the subtle current that animates all living beings and connects us to the vast intelligence of the cosmos. Prana is the breath of life, the energy that fuels our body, mind, and soul. It flows through us with each inhale and exhale, and through breath, sound, and movement, we can learn to guide it with intention.
In the Tantric tradition, Prana is a manifestation of Shakti, the divine feminine, the creative, dynamic force of existence. As we learn to work with this sacred energy, we begin to align with the divine both within and around us. We awaken the dance of Shakti and Shiva, the sacred feminine and masculine, merging energy and stillness, movement and awareness. From this union, we learn to live from presence, wholeness, and deep love.
Is Tantra just about sex?
No. Tantra includes sacred sexuality but is not defined by it. In fact, sexuality is only one aspect of a much broader path that includes meditation, breathwork, energy healing, emotional integration, devotion, and spiritual awakening.
What can I expect from a Tantra Counselling session?
Tantra Counselling sessions involve breath, movement, conscious dialogue and energy practices that help you reconnect with your body, heal emotional stagnation, and reclaim your authentic erotic energy. These sessions are fully clothed and guided by your intentions.
What is Mystic Tantra Massage?
Mystic Tantra Massage is a 10-session journey that includes Taoist, Kashmiri, Inner Alchemy Tantra Massage and Lasya Transmission. It’s a sacred process designed to bring healing, wholeness, peace, and unconditional love through conscious touch, breath, and presence.
What makes your Tantra sessions different from other healing modalities?
My sessions are rooted in loving presence, not fixing. They combine Tantra, Counselling, somatic work, Reiki, and sacred ritual, designed to meet you exactly where you are, with compassion and reverence.
Erotic & Sensual Elements
Arousal During Sessions
Arousal is natural and welcomed; the focus remains on presence rather than chasing outcomes.
What happens if get horny during my massage?
That’s completely natural. Arousal is welcome here. This is a safe space where nothing needs to be hidden or shamed.
The work I offer is erotic and sacred, so we let your arousal be part of the journey, without needing to rush it or control it. You get to feel, breathe, and soften into it, and I’ll guide you to stay connected to your body rather than getting lost in fantasy.
All while remembering that in this massage, touch is one way only, from me to you. So if needed, I’ll gently remind you to keep your hands to yourself, so the space remains clear, respectful, and deeply nourishing for us both.
You’re held with care, presence, and no judgment.
Prostate Massage
Not included in the one-hour “The Sacred Seduction” session due to time constraints.
Recommended to be explored in longer sessions like “The Serpent and the Sanctuary” or “The Alchemical Touch.”
I feel nervous about asking for a prostate massage. I’m curious, but I’ve never done it before and I’m scared I’ll be judged. Is that normal?
Firstly, I want you to know: you’re not alone in what you’re feeling.Many of the men who come to me for prostate massage are exploring it for the very first time. It’s completely natural to feel nervous, unsure, or even ashamed to ask, especially in a culture that often wraps this part of our bodies in silence or taboo.
But there is nothing shameful here. Your curiosity is tender, courageous, and completely valid. I’ve supported many men through this exact doorway, and each one has been surprised by the depth, sweetness, and untapped pleasure that lives in the prostate.
I hold this offering with deep care, slowness, and reverence. There is never any forcing, only a gentle listening to your body. I only proceed if there is a clear, open invitation. When your body is ready, it naturally draws me in. That kind of surrender can only happen in an atmosphere of trust, honouring, and unhurried presence.
Can I add a prostate massage to The Sacred Seduction session?
Because of the spaciousness required to truly honour a prostate massage, I don’t offer it as part of The Sacred Seduction (1 hour). That session is more suited to building erotic energy and full-body relaxation, but doesn’t provide the depth of time needed for this kind of sacred unfolding.
If it’s your first time, I recommend booking either The Serpent and the Sanctuary (90 minutes) or The Alchemical Touch (3 hours). The Alchemical Touch is especially ideal, it gives us all the time we need to connect, move slowly, and allow your body to open in its own time.
Alternatively, you may wish to explore this touch through the Mystic Tantra Massage Journey, where we don’t go directly into prostate massage, but instead awaken deep internal connection and subtle sensitivity that often leads naturally to readiness for sacred erotic touch in future sessions. And from the seventh session to the ninth session, prostate massage is a sacred part of the massage.
Once you’ve experienced prostate massage and your body feels more familiar with this kind of sensation, it may become possible to include it in shorter sessions moving forward.
Multiple Orgasms
If the body and timing allow, multiple orgasms are welcomed, but orgasm or ejaculation is not the goal of Tantra massage. Erotic massage includes the option for supported genital release.
Can I have more than one orgasm in a session ?
If your body and the timing allow, I’m open to whatever naturally unfolds. However, ejaculation is never the goal of Tantra massage. If a release happens, we welcome it with love. If it doesn’t, we also welcome that with love. Let’s stay connected to presence rather than chasing outcomes. That’s where the real magic lives.
Philosophy & Practitioner Background
Practitioner’s Unique Approach
Combines backgrounds in engineering, counseling, Reiki, and a French-Peruvian upbringing to create a sanctuary of genuine presence and deep care.
Understanding Tantra
An ancient spiritual path honoring the totality of human experience as sacred, focusing on awakening vital life force energy (Prana) through breath, sound, and movement.
Tantra vs. Erotic Massage
Tantra Massage: A meditative, spiritual journey focusing on energy flow, presence, and deep relaxation, often without genital touch.
Erotic Massage: Emphasizes sensual pleasure, arousal, and expanding one’s capacity to feel, with optional genital touch guided by consent.
How is Erotic Massage different from Mystic Tantra Massage?
While Erotic Massage and Mystic Tantra Massage both involve conscious touch and energetic awakening, they differ in their depth, intention, and approach to sensuality and healing.
Mystic Tantra Massage is rooted in ancient tantric teachings, and is a holistic body-energy-spirit experience. The focus is on energy flow, presence, and deep relaxation, rather than purely sensual pleasure. It supports emotional healing, energetic release, and awakening to life force energy. Touch is intentional and attuned to opening chakras, dissolving stagnation, and harmonizing polarity. It is an invitation into full-bodied presence and self-discovery, with or without genital touch.
Erotic Massage is more explicitly sensual, it is about pleasure, arousal, and expanding one’s capacity to feel. The focus is on sensory awakening, intimate connection, and deepening one’s relationship with pleasure. While it can be deeply healing, the emphasis is not necessarily on emotional or energetic transformation. It invites playfulness, erotic exploration, and trust in receiving. It is about embracing sensuality as a natural and sacred part of being human.
Both can be transformative experiences, but Mystic Tantra Massage is more of a meditative, spiritual journey making it a truly Tantric experience, while Erotic Massage is an invitation into sensual embodiment and pleasure in a tantra-like manner. Additionally, while Mystic Tantra Massage does not offer genital release, Erotic Massage gives the opportunity when desired.
Client Concerns & Guidance
Nervousness & Excitement
Clients feeling nervous or excited are guided gently through the journey, with the practitioner attuning to their pace and emotional state.
I’m going to be very nervous, but I’m also really excited. Will you guide me through this journey?
Thank you for sharing that so openly. It’s such a beautiful place to begin. It’s completely natural to feel a mix of nervousness and excitement when stepping into something new, especially something as intimate and vulnerable as this.
Yes, I will absolutely guide you. You won’t be doing this alone.
From the moment you arrive, I’ll be gently holding the space for you, attuning to your pace, your breath, your body, and your emotional state. We’ll take our time. You’ll never be rushed or asked to go beyond what feels right for you.
This is a journey of trust and presence, not performance.
I’m honoured to walk this path with you and excited to meet you, exactly as you are.
Emotional Reactions
Emotional responses during sessions are welcomed and held with care, recognizing them as part of the healing process.
Working with Trauma or Medication
Clients on medication or with trauma histories are encouraged to be medically stable and ideally working alongside a professional.
Do you work with clients on medication or with trauma?
Sometimes. It depends on the medication and the level of support you already have in place. You must be medically stable, and ideally working alongside a professional. I work within a clear scope of practice and prioritise your safety.
Can Tantra help with addiction or coping habits?
Tantra can gently bring awareness to underlying patterns and help you cultivate healthier behaviours. However, clinical addictions may require the support of a specialised therapist.
Do I need to be ‘healed’ to start this work?
Absolutely not. In fact, embracing your imperfections is part of the journey. You are welcome as you are, with your rawness, doubts, grief, pleasure and all.
Expectations & Results
The practitioner promises loving presence and devotion to the client’s highest good, without guaranteeing specific results.
Do you promise results?
I promise loving presence and my devotion to your highest good. Transformation arises when you’re truly met in your truth, not forced into change. The medicine is already within you.