What if pleasure and pain were never enemies, but sacred lovers in embrace?
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What if pleasure and pain were never enemies, but sacred lovers in embrace?

A reflection on a profound moment during a Taoist Tantra massage, when pain surfaced, not as something to fix, but as something to feel. As I breathed with my receiver, pain and pleasure wove together like lovers in a sacred dance. I realised that our emotions aren’t blocks to ecstasy, they’re gateways into it.

Presence, not perfection, is where true pleasure lives. These sessions are teaching me again and again that healing doesn’t mean resisting what arises, it means welcoming it with love, breath, and deep trust.

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